Question by youknowyouloveme<3: Extremely embarrassed and frustrated with having Irritable Bowel Syndrome
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Since I was about 8 years old I remember getting this horrible stomach aches where I would just cry for hours hoping I’d be able to go to the bathroom. Every single time I went it ended up being diarrhea. I know both my Mom & Grandma both had their gallbladders removed and faced the same problems – yet I still have mine. I am 19 now and having something like IBS is extremely frustrating.
I can never eat ANYTHING before leaving my house to go out with people. If I do that, then I begin to get those weird stomach cramps and I know I’m going to have to run to a nearby bathroom. Once that happens I have to cancel my plans because I am in fear I’ll be with a crowd nowhere near a bathroom. Especially due to me being a somewhat nervous person – my embarrassment basically makes me constipated. So I’m standing with this horrible stomach ache basically ready to explode and then my nervousness makes me unable to get rid of it!!!
It gets to the point, I just don’t even go out to eat with friends, or god forbid even going out a date!! It’s horrible trying to explain to a guy without mentioning its IBS & why you don’t want to eat, even though you are staring at his pizza like a ravenous animal. Luckily I am extremely skinny – but people believe its natural and have no idea how horrible my stomach really is.
No matter what I do – every food I eat makes me go. Most people will eat a slice of pizza and a soda followed by an ice cream. If I ever tried to do that I would literally die to a bathroom. And that’s just another problem – I can’t use any other bathroom besides the one in my own house! Unless I know its hopeless – sometimes I get lucky and I just go .. I just get so embarrassed to think of “blowing up” a public/boyfriends bathroom
What can I do to make these stomach aches less frequent? Because it takes such a toll on my life and nobody really understands
I don’t want to starve myself just so I can leave to socialize.
Best answer:
Answer by formerly_bob
It might be worthwhile seeing a gastroenterologist to see if there is some treatable condition causing this problem. There are a variety of medications that can be tried, and maybe you could get trial prescriptions for few medications to see if any of them work. An antidepressant such as Wellbutrin might even be worth trying – a major effect of the medication is decreased intestinal motility, and this drug tends to cause few side effects in most people.
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